Considering change, an idea, or a new direction?
How to Choose What Actually Works for You
The Wiser Podcast - Ep 22
This week’s episode explores an approach I’m trying in my own life to better detect not so much other’s best ideas, but my own. To back myself more. To follow the path that most suits where I’m at today.
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Summary
We explore the crucial difference between "the way" and "ways" of approaching life's challenges.
When bombarded with contradictory advice about personal growth, relationships, work, or health, many people feel paralyzed by confusion. We unpack why certain voices present their solution as the only solution, whether from immaturity, limited experience, or hidden agendas.
There is rarely just one "right way" - instead, there are multiple viable paths.
We'll examine how to evaluate these options based on your unique circumstances, personality, and resources rather than blindly following what worked for someone else.
We introduce three practical principles for moving forward:
1) Catch yourself when thinking there's only one solution and brainstorm alternatives,
2) Assess alignment with your specific situation and disposition, and
3) Start with small experiments rather than all-or-nothing commitments.
Most importantly, we discuss how to navigate the tension between accepting yourself as you are while still seeking growth, finding the balance between persistence and letting go, and trusting your inner wisdom when external voices conflict. By embracing the existence of multiple pathways, you'll gain more tolerance, flexibility, and freedom to choose what genuinely serves your journey.
If you find this useful, please consider sharing it with others. Thank you. Rob.